"She" is Sarah, now safely ensconced at UC Berkeley, or "Cal" as they call it up there. I've been lying low for most of August, trying to have as much time at home as possible. I was originally scheduled to work on the day she was to move (it was a good gig), but the gig canceled, so I was able to be part of the plan. In fact, I loaded the car.
Every last inch of the Lexus was full. The pink cloud on top is a seven-foot-long package of pillows made by Albina for the dorm room floor and under-the-loft area. We left at five in the morning and she was almost fullly settled by six in the evening. She lucked out with a great roomate, a sweet girl from El Monte. They've had a full week with no classes to get acclimated to life at Cal. Best of all, Sarah's cousin Chris
lives in Dannville, a short trip by BART. He's 16 but doesn't yet drive, so he's an expert at negotiating the great Bay Area transit system.
We spent Sunday through Tuesday in Berkeley, and then returned on Friday and stayed until Sunday morning. Albina and I had a gig in SF, so that worked out well. The break gave Sarah some time to get used to her life without us, (and ours too) but we also had a chance to say a proper goodbye.
So now we're empty-nesters. Of course I miss the closeness with my daughter, but we talk several times a day and IM and email. It's not like twenty years ago when everyone waited for low Sunday rates to call home. And-she'll be back for Thanksgiving and the December break soon enough, probably too soon for her. I like the fact that I can reinvent some things about my life now (I'm taking the bus to the office tomorrow), and that Albina and I can be two people together again.
Now - it's time to get back to work, and to my life.
Think I'll see if Sarah's online first.